You could talk about the workplace and what you love/hate about your job. If the two of you work together or go to the same school, this particular topic will come especially easy. Hopefully he will have a few funny things to add so the two of you can laugh the afternoon away! The point is to make him laugh, and let the funny convo take off from there. So what better way to show your crush you have a rockin’ personality than by striking up a silly conversation? You could start off with a hilarious joke you heard, or you could bring up a funny topic you heard on the television earlier. I can’t stress this enough: men LOVE it when a woman has a sense of humor. Oh- and he feels great about himself because a cute girl thinks he looks awesome in his new shirt. Look at that! A simple compliment led to a common interest, which obviously led to a long conversation with your crush. You could start off by telling him how awesome he looks in his new shirt, and the next thing you know you’re talking about the place he bought it from- which just so happens to be one of your all-time favorite shops. Compliments not only make you feel good, but they are also excellent conversation starters. Who doesn’t love a good compliment? I certainly can’t thin of anyone. (Not to mention you’ll find out a TON more about this special someone you like!) Either way, discussing life experiences is a great topic because the convo is practically endless. This could end up being a really hilarious conversation about some of the most embarrassing moments of your life, but it could also end up being a rather serious convo where you discuss some major events that have happened during your lifetime.
At the very least it will get the conversation kick-started. If it’s extremely hot outside, try saying something like, “Oh my gosh, this heat is ridiculous! I’m in desperate need of an ice cream cone”, in which case we can only hope he will ask you out to a date at Cold Stone. Instead of saying something traditional like that, kick it up a notch. You will look like a boring young lady that doesn’t know what to talk about with a guy she likes- and that’s what we are trying to avoid. Okay, I absolutely DO NOT mean asking “How’s the weather outside?” I mean, seriously.
It could be something serious you saw on the News or something silly you saw on TMZ. When the convo starts fizzling out or you simply need a conversation starter, try thinking of a cool or interest current event that’s going on in this world.
When you don’t have anything to talk about, what’s the easiest route to go? Current events, of course. Whether is maybe NASCAR racing or watching documentaries on the deep blue sea, get to know the person you like on a totally different level with this intricate topic. Ensure you keep your crush interested by getting to know his interests. The best way to get someone to open up and get them talk a lot is to ask them what they find interesting in life. This roots back to topic number 1- asking HIM about HIS interests until you find something you enjoy too. But if you don’t know what common interests you share, you might need to do a little bit of prying. If the two of you have something you both enjoy, then talking about this particular topic should be a breeze- and it should be fun, too! Now, it’ll be easy to strike up this convo if you’re sure you share a certain interest (for instance you’re both on a basketball team). Get him talking with interesting questions like the traditional “How are you doing today?” or more invasive questions like “What’s your biggest goal in life?” There’s hundreds of questions you could be asking him! It not only shows that you are interested in learning more about him, but I guarantee he won’t have a problem rambling on and on about himself- in fact, he will enjoy it. You can’t go wrong with using him as a topic. What do people absolutely love to talk about no matter what? THEMSELVES.
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